So you guys want to work at a range? Not so fast, sometimes it is difficult. Had to make a very tough decision today.
Elderly gentleman, mid 80’s, obviously somewhat demented, multiple phyiscal impairments requiring a walker, came with his family to hit some balls.
Family tells me he was at one time a very good player and just wanted to get outside to hit some balls. A family member is standing behind him holding onto his belt while at address because his gait and balance were terrible. I was real concerned when I first saw this. He took one swing and as long as the family member was holding onto him things went ok.
So I went back around the corner into my “corporate office” where shade is plentiful and the next thing I hear is a groan and the sound of a metal club hitting cement. I look around the corner to find him fallen into a contorted position upon the ground. For some reason on the next ball she was not holding onto him because she left to get something off a nearby bench.
As sincerely and cordially as I could, I informed the family that his day hitting balls has come to a conclusion. Although the elderly man did not know fully what was going on, the family almost seemed relieved that someone else would be the “bad guy” as they tried in vain to explain to him that he can’t hit anymore balls.
So he’s now resting on that bench as I approach him to talk. I said " it looks to me like you were a fine player at one time". He responded " I just want to hit some balls but just can’t do it"…“no good sounds anymore”. We talked about golf and Hogan a bit and I told him the story of Hogan hitting his 3 last balls and walking away. He liked the story a lot. I tried to comfort him with time catches us all, and to be fortunate that memories of his playing days are something no one can take away, although at the same time I was thinking even those memories might soon fade from his awareness.
When we were done talking I asked him if he would like to hear some sounds again. He nodded approval.
When I finished he smiled and said…“well hit”. They were too! I absolutely pulverized those shots with pressure that still amazes me. I think he enjoyed them.
I said" thank you" to him and although again, at the same time, I was thinking… thank you Lag.
They packed up and went on their way.